Taste of Soccer – Portland Style

IMG00066-20100801-2047He told us he was going to be playing soccer.  I don’t think we thought much of it.  He was going to be playing in a 3 on 3 tournament downtown Portland.  We had watched him play in these a hundred times before (no exaggeration). Evan along with Brian, Jarad, and Granite.  Only IMG00060-20100801-2021one of them was playing on a team anymore.  I know two of the four were out of shape. No way were they going to play that well.  The real intrigue to me was that they were going to be playing in Pioneer Square, on brick. Not your best soccer surface.  So I was surprised when Evan started IMG00064-20100801-2031calling saying they were winning, than another call saying they were advancing. Finally the call that they might make the semi finals.  So we decided to end the family dinner early and make a mad dash for downtown.  We got there just as the semi finals IMG00062-20100801-2028started and watched the team win.  While all the other teams had uniforms, Evan and buddies had tie=dye shirts.  They looked like a bunch of good friends getting together for a pick up game, but some how they made it to the semi’s and then the finals.  We watched and

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cheered, but they came up a game short.  At the end, after catching their breath, they were all smiles, I don’t think they really thought they would get that far.  Made for a great night.

 

 

 

After 27 years are we there yet?

Whistler1It wasn’t that far of a drive, only from San Clemente to Garden Grove.  Back in those days probably not more than a 1/2 hour or 45 minutes.  It was the road between our house and Grandma and Grandpa’s.  But back than it seemed to take forever.  In unison my brother and I would yell from the back seat, “Are we there yet?”  I am sure to my mom and dad it seemed like we would keep saying it repeatedly from the moment we got into the car until we finally hit the driveway of Gram and Gramps.  As time has marched on, trips to Colorado, drives to Seattle, flights to Japan, all found my kids asking, chanting, yelling, crying, the same phrase, over and over and over again.  “Are we there yet?”

Rockaway 5-2010_061aLast night Darla and I went out to celebrate our 27th anniversary.  Twenty Seven years of living with, changing with, growing with, learning with, , loving with,  fighting with, working with, each other.  As we talked about the past, and we talked about today, and we talked about the things we wished for and wanted to work towards, I found myself saying, “Are we there yet?”  After 27 years, you would think that we should have arrived.  Darla gave me a card last night that in a funny way poked fun at how much work our marriage has taken (and I am sure every marriage as well).  You would think with all the work we have put in we would have perfected the art of marriage by now.  But it appears we may have at least 27 more years of work ahead of us.

Rockaway 5-2078aI have to say that on this trip called Darla and Rick, there have been many amazing stops along the way.  There have been a few detours and flat tires.  We have changed the route more than once, but not the destination.  It has definitely been an adventure.  As we talked over dinner I asked if Darla wanted to sign up for 27 more years, neither of us were sure we could commit that long, but we did both sign up for another year with an option for more after that, if we still like each other.

Guess I’ll keep yelling from the back seat as we go along, “Are we there yet?”  Here is to hoping we all arrive someday. Love you Darla  

An Attempt at Art from the Beach

Last week found be at one of my favorite places, Cape Kiwanda on the Northern Oregon Coast.  These are a few of the captures I was able to come home with.Yoga over the OceanYoga high above the water

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Morning at the Beach- and a few pictures

Kiwanda July2010_031Coffee pot creating an awesome aroma across the  room, water running in the bathroom as teeth get brushed, groggy hoarse voices complaining about the noiKiwanda July2010_081se waking them up, the kite flyers heading to the beach, and the runners planning which direction to head out.  These are the sounds of morning.  As I woke up this morning the fog was thick outside Kiwanda July2010_093the window, seagulls were flying  somewhere near by, and a cool breeze was coming through the window. As a smile slowly crossed my face I found myself thinking, I’m not in Portland.  I’m not very far from Portland, maybe only 90 miles or so, still within cell phone Kiwanda July2010_095range, but I might as well be on another continent. I am away, I am on vacation, I am not doing the Kiwanda July2010_043normal routine.  I will not be mowing the lawn today, or cleaning the bathroom, or going grocery shopping.  I will be lazy, maybe go take a few pictures, probably drink a beer or two or ……., and definitely laugh, smile and enjoy.  This is Kiwanda July2010_061the beach. And the first thought crossing my mind is why am I spending time on this computer blogging/ Good question, enjoy your day.     

Lincoln City Skate Park

So what do you do on a SamFam vacation?  That depends on who you are and what you like doing.  If your one half of the crowd you head to the Outlet Mall.  If your the other half you head to the Lincoln Skate Park.  Evan and Gray spent there time skating while Greg and I just sat and remembered what it was like to be a little less afraid of bumps and bruises.  I decided to put the camera down for a bit, and try catching some video from my blackberry.  Not to bad.  Here are a few clips from the outing.

A New Way to Vacation

This week we are trying something new.  Darla and I wanted to take a few days off to relax and rejuvenate.  Seems we can get moving so fast we forget to breathe, and that is really no way to live.  A few months back Darla decided to rent a beach house.  She also decided to invite a few people to come along.  To us, it didn’t matter if they came or not.  We were going on a vacation of sorts, and if others wanted to join us they were welcome to.  If they decided not to come we were still going.  Goal of the time, sleep, relax, connect, enjoy, get sunburned, maybe surf, maybe take pictures, maybe do things that we want to do.

Today, the beach house had Me and Darla, our three boys, one dtr in law, two grandma’s, two grandpas, a brother and his family and a sister and her family.  And at the moment, we are all out doing our own thing.  Some are flying kites, some are climbing sand dunes, a few are visiting shops, and Dar and I are sitting in a coffee shop, doing some work, looking at the ocean, and enjoying doing nothing but what we want to be doing.

Yesterday Darla and Rachel took a run, while Derek and I hit the Pelican Pub.  Scottish Ale was flowing (probably a good idea to stand up every once and a while to see if you can still balance).  We sat outside watching the waves, talking about life, and enjoying good beer. I decided I enjoy having a married son and it’s fun to hear how his life is going and what he thinks about.

I like this new way of doing vacation.  I don’t feel like I have to entertain or make sure people are having a good time.  After all, I am providing the location and my goal was to sleep, relax, connect, enjoy, get sunburned, maybe surf, maybe take pictures, maybe do things that we want to do, and that is exactly what I am doing.  And before I take to much credit, it was really all Darla’s idea.  She is so smart some times.

Pics and a Video from Downtown Portland

Spent a little time Downtown Portland today.  Among other stops I went by the Saturday Market. Took a quick video of Hula Hoop Girl.  Also took a few pictures while I was walking around.  Let me know what you think? One of those rare sunny weekend days.

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Not What They Expected

June 2010_074 For the last few days things have been a bit crazy around our house.  Helicopters have been buzzing overhead, the entrance to our housing area has been blocked off and rerouted, strange people have been parking in front of our home, and in the background a loud PA system is going.  I think I am understanding what it must be like to be a celebrity, to have paparazzi all around.  However, the only reason all this is happening is that we to live a few blocks away from Cook June 2010_072Park and the Annual Tigard Balloon Festival.  Our house is under the flight pattern for the helicopter rides, we can hear the concerts without leaving our backyard, and we can watch the hot air balloons float lazily into the sky while sipping coffee. 

June 2010_058Last night we joined the crowds, paid our seven dollars to go to our park, which on any other day we can walk through for free, and had our bags searched. We sat amongst those who ventured into the Rouge Brewery Tent enjoying  Double Dead Guy at $4 a dixie cup and listened to a band play bad renditions of old favorites. Conversation in the beer tent was lively as more micro cups ere consumed, people who didn’t know each other shared tables, and we all waited in anticipation of the evening Balloon Glow.

For those of us who have attended more than once, we know what to expect during the evening Balloon Glow, but forJune 2010_030 those who had never been before, had paid their seven dollars to get in, and were now drinking many small sipper cups of Rouge beer at $4 a pop, the anticipation was unbearable.  The hot air balloons slowly filled with air, seven in all.  As the air was heated inside the balloon, the entire balloon would glow from the flame.  A local radio station interviewed the balloon pilots.  We joked with our table mates, a foul mouthed hair dresser from California who couldn’t wait to move to Oregon and her boy friend, and another couple who informed us that proper table sharing educate involved the buying of the whole table beer anytime you got one yourself, and our friends who asked if we would join them for the event.  I received a leg hair removal demonstration from my new hair dresser friend via a bumper sticker she affixed to my leg, the table discussed housing prices, Darla again discovered that hoppy beer does not make her happy, and as we turned back to watch the balloons, June 2010_041one by one they deflated.  Our new friends and first time festival goers asked, “Is that it?????  The Balloons don’t go up in the air???”  One stated, “I paid $7 for that, I’m going to get his money back (and pointed to her husband or boyfriend, we never did find out which).”  All around us was disappointment, having been before I remembered how I too had been disappointed years earlier by the same realization.  I was sure the reason for the beer tent was to get us to the point where it really didn’t matter if the balloons took off or not.  As we all left feeling a bit taken advantage of, we ran into a guy selling cigars.  He had no permit, was not in one of the booths, but having enjoyed his night he gave me and my buddy a little bandito, which was only appropriate after drinking little beers, and we walked back to our house to smoke our banditos and finish a bottle of beer before ending our night.

This morning I hear no helicopters, the PA is quite, and I am assuming the end of the festival is near.  You have to get up early to June 2010_073watch the balloons float into the air, but at that time you can’t get any dixie cup beer, so you decide what is more important to you.  I’ll be going back again next year.  After all it is almost in my backyard.

Birthday Song – Listen at your own Risk

Some traditions just shouldn’t be.  Here is one of the Sam Fams.  Each year sing the birthday song the worse than the year before.  Listen in and tell us if you think we are being true to that tradition.

Fathers Day on Dog Mountain

Here are a few Pictures taken during the hike up Dog Mountain.  Close to the top the wind hit 30+ miles an hour and the skies turned dark forcing us to take shelter in Dead Man Walking Pub and Brewery in Stevens, Wa.  What an awesome way to spend the day with Darla and the Kids.  May you enjoy.  These are also posted on Flickr with my other Pics.

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My Happy Fathers Day

Twenty five years ago I entered the elite group of men who could call themselves fathers and participate in the celebration of fathers day.  That year I had a 2 month old little boy and my world was changing.  I felt the weight of responsibility, the fear of molding someone's life, and the privilege of having someone look at you who was completely dependant on you for their physical, emotional and spiritual well being.  I would experience those feeling three more times as I continued to perfect the art of becoming a father (yep, that means sex).  Through the years I saw my kids fall backwards off slides, break arms and wrists, encounter police, experiment with all kinds of things.  I watched them do well in school and fail in school, become awesome in sports and then quit, perform in front of all kinds of people and then move on to the next thing.  I was never sure if I was doing it wrong or doing it right, and for the most part I still don’t.  Being a dad does not come with a very good instruction manual.  More than anything it is about believing in, encouraging, loving, and letting your kids figure it out.  Early on you hold their hand, then you act as a safety net, soon you become their cheerleader and councilor, and finally you sit back and watch.

This morning I sat back and watched as the boys, 25, 21, and almost 18, made me breakfast and are cleaning the kitchen.  I read an email from my little 23 year old daughter who is somewhere in Europe living her dream.  It is fathers day and each of my kids is trying to let me know they appreciate me.  Kind of cool.  Soon they will be taking me on a killer hike – literally I think their goal is to try to cause pain.  They have picked a hike that will allow me to take pictures, visit a pub when finished, and enjoy time with them.  They know exactly what I like and have figured out how to incorporate itl. Look out Oregon Gorge we are coming your way. So after 25 years of this Father job, i must have done an ok job if they still like hanging with me.  This despite my being moody at times, lost in my job, and trying to figure my own life out along the way.  For all of you dads out there, I hope you have kids that love you like mine love me.  This is a Happy Fathers Day.  Pictures to follow